when you cross the line

there is a time and a place for everything. and there are things that you should and should not say. if you feel the need to say things that you should not know this be aware of the consequences.

it is rude and inconsiderate of you to do something like that, even if you think that it is a joke. to take advantage of someone's feelings to make someone else laugh is a disgusting thing to do which makes me sick.

how can you call yourself a brother? you say that you uphold a certain set of values and morals, but it is ok whenever you feel like laughing to make others uncomfortable. is that right? do you talk to the person before? do you consider where they are comeing from and why they might be hurt? do you understand them and their life?

if you do not think about things like that not only do you endanger your relationship with someone, you you make yourself look like an ass. this goes doubly for those who understand why the other person feels that way.

know that it is not your place to say things like that and do not say them. irreperable damage is done with words like that. if nothing else do it because there is a certain level of respect that should be given to each brother and do not put them through that. it is an intentional attempt to hurt someone, and does nothing but cause problems with people later.

everyone has a sore spot that gets pushed more often than it should. realize this and know that there are some things that should never be brought up, and others that might be good only if you do it at the right time. tonight was not one of them and it was extremely hurtful. no one likes to feel that they are under attack, and others have to defend themselves from the outside world too. more so than others in some peoples cases. understand that, and realize that they do not need that from someone who is supposed to be bound together in frendship and love. you know the rest, i do not need to write it.